Lincoln Ryan Sloan, you were born on 06.25.2020 (your cousin Sawyer's first birthday!) at 1:38pm. You join mom, dad, and proud big brother Clark in our sweet little family.
You arrived 3 weeks early, after first trying to escape at over 8 weeks early. My pregnancy with you was both easier and harder than it was with your brother. I was less sick with you (thank you!), but I was also hospitalized 5 separate times with preterm labor and other complications.
Labor was fast and furious! Because you were early and due to some of our complications, 4 hours of it involved very close monitoring with very little medical intervention. After we got the medical all clear, in a matter of 37 minutes, we hit active labor, spent about 15 glorious minutes in the warm tub, and within 5 minutes after getting out of the tub, you were laid on my chest! Your dad was the most amazing support, and I don't think we could have done it as seamlessly and without medication if it weren't for him.
Just like your brother's birth, I had a lot of back pain and just like that time, Daddy spent most of those 5 hours bent over me to push on my back, sing to us, and keep me encouraged. He's incredible at this, and while you laid on my chest waiting to be held by him first, I told you the 3 most important things I could; how much we love you, how often we have prayed for you, and how lucky you are to get to have your Daddy as yours.
Every time he has spoken to you, even in those first few seconds of your life, you have opened your eyes to look deep into his. It's really the sweetest thing to watch you recognize his voice and look to him with so much love and familiarity. I was hoping that I might be your favorite, OR that you would look like me, but I'm not sure either of those things will end up being true. And because I know first hand how great your Daddy is, I don't mind losing on either account.
Labor was fast and furious! Because you were early and due to some of our complications, 4 hours of it involved very close monitoring with very little medical intervention. After we got the medical all clear, in a matter of 37 minutes, we hit active labor, spent about 15 glorious minutes in the warm tub, and within 5 minutes after getting out of the tub, you were laid on my chest! Your dad was the most amazing support, and I don't think we could have done it as seamlessly and without medication if it weren't for him.
Just like your brother's birth, I had a lot of back pain and just like that time, Daddy spent most of those 5 hours bent over me to push on my back, sing to us, and keep me encouraged. He's incredible at this, and while you laid on my chest waiting to be held by him first, I told you the 3 most important things I could; how much we love you, how often we have prayed for you, and how lucky you are to get to have your Daddy as yours.
Every time he has spoken to you, even in those first few seconds of your life, you have opened your eyes to look deep into his. It's really the sweetest thing to watch you recognize his voice and look to him with so much love and familiarity. I was hoping that I might be your favorite, OR that you would look like me, but I'm not sure either of those things will end up being true. And because I know first hand how great your Daddy is, I don't mind losing on either account.
Just like your big brother, your name holds significant meaning to us. Your dad hails from Illinois, known as 'The Land of Lincoln", and as the place that shaped him and all of his wonderful qualities (more on those later), we thought it was a fitting tribute.
Illinois is known as the land of Lincoln because of our 16th president; Abraham Lincoln. He was best known for abolishing slavery and is regarded as the greatest president in the history of our country. Lincoln is commonly known as "Honest Abe" because of his integrity and honesty; two qualities that your dad and I will work hard to instill in your life.
Something extremely important in my life is fighting for the oppressed and crusading for equality. The fact that people were (and still are) withheld basic human rights because of the color of their skin and who they are as a person is both appalling and unacceptable to me, and I pray it will be for you, too. Before Lincoln was president, this kind of discrimination was not only legal, but widely accepted as morally sound. He took a stand and made a change, and it is my hope that you will do the same when you see inequality in the world.
Your middle name is maybe a bit more obvious, as the man you will know as 'Daddy' answers to the rest of the world as 'Ryan'. Your brother and Daddy share the middle name Scott, which is a nod to your Great Grandma Kay who neither of you will meet in this life, but rest assured, she would have adored both of you. It was important to me that you also share your dad's name not only because he will be the most important man in your life, but you'd be hard pressed to find a better one.
Your dad, much like Abraham Lincoln, is honest, full of integrity, and is a great leader. He loves you so much already, and takes care of you and your brother like it's what he was born to do. Not all dads take to parenthood as naturally or quickly as he has, and you are one of two of the luckiest little boys in this world because you get him as yours. He is fiercely loyal, loves with his whole heart, makes everyone around him laugh, and is the best father I could have chosen for my children. I hope you and your brother will grow to feel honored to get to share his name, because I promise you; it is a great privilege.
After we chose Clark's name, we realized that Busch Stadium (home of our favorite baseball team) is on Clark Street. We have a lot of great memories at Cardinals games, and it seemed like extra confirmation that we had chosen the right name for him. Much the same, after we had already decided on Lincoln for you, it occurred to us that Christ Church (where Daddy works, our family's place of worship, and the reason we moved to Davenport) is framed on one side by Lincoln Ave. It's also the name of the street where one of your dad's favorite guitar shops resides, but he SAYS that wasn't the reasoning behind his name suggestion. :)
We also realized after choosing Clark's names that each of his 3 names has 5 letters. After choosing yours, we realized that all 3 of your names end in the letter 'n'. I love a good theme in life, and think it's pretty perfect that while you each have a theme or two in common, you also each get to have your own individual themes.
We also realized after choosing Clark's names that each of his 3 names has 5 letters. After choosing yours, we realized that all 3 of your names end in the letter 'n'. I love a good theme in life, and think it's pretty perfect that while you each have a theme or two in common, you also each get to have your own individual themes.
I think it's fitting that we found another name with so many connections to our lives. And I can't think of a better name for the sweet boy who was the missing "Linc" in our family. We love you so much already, Lincoln Ryan, and we can't wait to see who you become and what great things you'll do!
